But I Still Love Him

Despite the poop-capades we've been dealing with I still really, really, really love our boys. I've been having anxiety already just thinking about going back to school next year. It's a YEAR away and I'm still just dreading being gone and having someone else take care of my little dudes.

Taft likes to get in Luke's crib with him and wrestle (Luke is not a huge fan though). Earlier today Taft had his arm around Luke and kept saying over and over "Best Friends, Wuke! BEST FRIENDS!" I hope one day they'll be best friends.

Taft usually wakes up in a very good mood after his nap and will usually snuggle with me for a good 15 minutes. It's one of the BEST parts of my day.

Lately Taft likes putting on pieces of clothing he gets out of the dirty clothes (gross). It's usually something that's mine or Seth's and his huge on him. He puts it on and says, "I'm a princess!" I think he thinks dresses, or things that looks like dresses are princesses, I'm not quite sure, but I've been trying to correct him by telling him he's a prince. He must have been offended him because he always tells me, "You're NOT a princess Mom!"

We live on a block that has several kids, mostly boys. The ages range from 2-9 (ish). Taft thinks all the boys are THE coolest. Whenever he sees them he gets way excited and always says "What's going on guys?!" They usually laugh and tell him to say it again. It's kind of sad because he wants to play with him so bad but they're so much older and are only interested in him for a few seconds.

Taft has been good at sleeping lately but usually gets up three or more times before he finally falls asleep for the night. The getting out of bed sequence usually goes:

1. "I need water."
2. "I need to go potty."
3. "I need one toy."
4. "I need water."


Luke is army crawling all over the place now. I really have to watch him because he always seems to go straight for electrical cords. He is a very smiley boy. He is just about perfect in every way, except for his whiney hours from 5-7. Oh-my-good-gracious, that kid can whine. It's at the perfect time of day too, when I'm trying to get dinner ready and the house picked up. Combined with the whining, my anxiety level is just about through the roof.  He still doesn't have any teeth yet (Taft had his first two by this age) and although he drools non-stop I still don't see anything swelling or breaking through. He loves to roam around the floor when Taft's not around, it means he gets to play with whatever toy he wants! Even though Taft loves Luke, he has a really hard time sharing with him. No matter what the toy or thing is that Luke has, Taft snatches it right up. Lukie does not like it. I gave Luke his first puff treats this week and was trying to get him to feed himself. Instead of picking up the puff out of my hand he would just lean over with his mouth open straight to my hand. Luke is a great sleeper and I think maybe a little bit lazy. He sleeps about 12 hours (getting up once to eat) every night, takes a 2ish hour morning nap and a 2ish hour afternoon nap and is already tired again by 6:30. He's super ticklish, likes to attack your face with his hands and mouth, and will rip big chunks of hair right out of your scalp. Oh and his blue eyes make everyone swoon.

This Post is About Poop...Don't Say I Didn't Warn You

About three weeks ago I started a 3-day potty training program. It promised if I put myself and child under house-arrest for 3 days,while watching the potty trainee like a hawk, use the correct terminology, and stay positive then the program would work.

The program was working wonderfully and I couldn't believe that it went so well! Since the first day Taft has not had one wet accident-not even at night. Taft is doing so well with numero uno and is always super proud of himself when he goes. HOWEVER, number two is NOT happening and I want to punch myself in the face. UGH.

We googled "my toddler is afraid to poop on the potty" and all we got was a whole bunch of other parents in the same boat with no answers. One lady said her 11 year old still has issues (Please bless that isn't us in 9 years)

He hasn't worn diapers or pull ups since the beginning of training...but we find ourselves cleaning some really gross undies every other day. Taft has gone in his unders, in the tub, in a jacuzzi, and on Seth (yes, it was very traumatic for all involved). As far as bribes/rewards go we've tried candy, stickers, ice cream, toys, a Rolls Royce, and The Moon. He doesn't want any of it if it means he has to poop first.

Help. Us.


p.s. Don't say maybe he isn't ready, because he is. (Remember, he has no problems whatsoever going peepers.) He knows when he needs to go, he knows where it's supposed to go, he just WON'T.

p.p.s I haven't talked about poop more in my entire life than I have in the last 3 weeks.

p.p.p.s Aren't you glad I blogged about this?

More with Lanx + Pete and Carissa Visit!

This action cracked Auntie Lanx's sunglasses

One of Taft's most popular stances

Sandy Five o'clock shadow

Soaking up the attention from Lanx, Carissa, and Pete

3 out of 4 siblings...We missed you Tates!

It didn't take too long for Taft to warm up to Pete and Carissa. By the end of the day Taft was absolutely ga-ga for Carissa.

Even though Pete and Carissa were married in May, they haven't lived together until now. Pete was already in San Antonio, TX for work but Carissa and Jayda stayed in Stockton, CA until Jayda and Carissa both finished up school. Pete and Carissa stopped through Coronado on their move to their new home in Tejas. We missed seeing Jayda but her parents decided to spare her the agonzing 20+ hour drive to Texas and she'll be flying with her uncle later this week.

It was great to spend the day with Pete and Carissa and get to know Carissa a little better. Taft was smitten with Carissa, it was pretty funny to watch. We spent the day at the beach and went out to dinner on the bayside (Pete's treat!). We spent less than 24 hours with them, but we were just glad they went out of the way to stop by and see us.

Speaking of Pete, look at this table he built for his new family (with very few tools I might add...)

Let the Record Show

Taft: "Mom, you're cute. Mom, you're nice."

You bet he got a big smooch and big hug for that one. Granted, he did once tell me as we were cleaning the bathroom that the tub was cute, but still. I think he likes me. Yay!

Seven, yes, SEVEN months old!

Being cute

Loving his puppy

"Who, me?"

Mmmm...paper

"Give me back that paper!"

So, obviously, Luke keeps getting cuter and cuter. He can now sit on his own...ta da! He scootching along the floor and getting up on all fours and rocking. He's interested in everything and wants to put anything he can get his hands on in his mouth. He loves baths, being tickled, moving all over the place, and his new jumper from Nana. Great eater, still nursing, going long stretches at night, but still wakes up early morning for a feeding. He's pooped by 7:00 and is a wreck by 7:30. Is up for good for the day around 7:00 unless Taft wakes him up earlier, which is quite often. Luke now sleeps with a roommate, Taft. Still no teeth. He does not like to be ignored, to be kept waiting when he's hungry, to be in the stroller for too long, and for some reason is super fuzzy between 5:00 p.m. and bed (although the jumper/bouncer has helped with this). He's a very happy baby the majority of the time and I'm glad that he hasn't learned to push me away when I smother him with snuggles and kisses all day long.


Untitled from heidi herway on Vimeo.




Bouncy Luke from heidi herway on Vimeo.

Oh Busski...

The other day on the way home from the beach Taft had been teasing Luke and I noticed he took Luke's sun hat. I didn't realize until we got home that he took the hat AND binky from Luke. I guess that's what he needed to get cozy. Also, I guess he's just playing the role of big brother by teasing. At least Luke thinks it's funny!

Thirty Two Years Young

We celebrated Seth's birthday this past week. He worked all day on his actual birthday. Boo. His birthday dinner request was tacos. Easy! I'm glad Seth is so easy to please. One of his favorite desserts is Tres Leches so I attempted to make that and it didn't turn out too bad! Lanx then offered to watch the boys while Seth and I played tennis. Friday night we Lanx watched the boys again while Seth and I had a night on the town. The anesthesiology residents were all getting together for dinner and drinks so we joined them and had a great time. It was so great to get out sans kids. It's been a long time! I felt bad for Seth because he never really had time all weekend to do what he would really want to do (other than go on a date with me of course)...bike ride or something else active like that. Seth has been so so busy and is just completely exhausted but I think he still had a good birthday. I'm glad I get to spend all Seth's birthdays with him, he's just the best. 

Aunties Come to Town

Earlier this month we had the honor of hosting world traveler, Nicole Herway, for less than 24 hours. The boys and I picked up Aunt Colie from the airport around noon, came home and had lunch, the boys and Colie took naps, then we all had dinner, walked to the beach, and got frozen yogurt. Nicole had a early, early flight and Seth was able to drop her off on his way to work at 5:30 the next morning. Colie took Taft to see the firetrucks at the station around the corner from our house while I made dinner. They totally lucked out and Taft was given a full blown tour and got to try on all the fire fighter gear. He was in HEAVEN. Colie was mad she forgot her camera but said Taft's face was priceless and was running all over pointing to everything and naming everything. He loooooves all things fire fighter related.

Now Aunt Lanx is back from India and came to stay with us for a while. Wahoo! She came with us to the zoo the other day and was a huge help. Lanx has just come along for the ride for our regular routine: beach, park, library, grocery store, etc. Currently she's my partner in potty training...yes, potty training. She's also become addicted to watching "Brothers and Sisters" on Netflix.

Taft and his drum Lanx bought him in India

Helicopter at the zoo

I'm not the only one who finds this boy irresistible

Lanx, Taft, and the waffs (giraffes)

The Bike That a Mom's Dreams are Made Of

We only have one car and right now Seth takes it to work so the boys and I are left car-less BUT THAT'S OKAY because everything we need is in walking distance:  the beach, the park, the grocery store, the post office, the preschool that Taft will go to, the bank. Ideally, I would get everywhere a lot quicker if I rode my bike, but Lukie's still a tad small for the bike trailer. The picture above is my dream bike. I want it real bad. Found here.

Fourth of July

We had a great holiday weekend. We went up to L.A. for part of the weekend to hang out with one of Seth's best friends from college and his family. We arrived at their house Saturday morning and they had breakfast waiting for us then we all headed to the beach. We BBQ'd in the evening and then the dad's took over kid duty while the mom's had a night out at the movies. It was a great! 

Monday Seth had the day off so we were able to enjoy the Fourth of July festivities together. Our ward held a breakfast at the parade and Taft seemed to really like the parade (for the most part) but Luke got sleepy so he took a nap in the shade. They had live patriotic music going all day at the park so we spent a chunk of the day there. We ate traditional 4th of July foods for dinner...watermelon, corn on the cob, hot dogs, you know.

Taft ended up taking a really, really late nap but didn't wake up so I had to wake him for fireworks. I gave him dinner but he was doing his sleep eating thing again. When he finished he was just awake enough to tell me he wanted to go to bed. So...we missed fireworks BUT we still had a great last weekend before Seth started his 70 hour work weeks. 

Lastly, a shout out to all our military members and their families. There's a Navy base here so there was a lot of military personnel at the parade. I'm grateful for those that sacrifice and dedicate their lives to serving our country. (Go Pete!)

Luke is Six Months

Taft had been crying because he wanted to take the picture...

Luke hit his half-way-to-one year mark at the end of June. The time is flying! We love our Little Lukie and he is a very happy, very chill baby. He started solids and so far isn't opposed to any of the foods he's been given. I can't tell what he likes the most yet, he likes it all. He's still nursing, but I'm looking to end that in the near future. He hasn't had any teeth break through yet but as soon as he does...hasta la vista baby. He a good napper and really seems to value his sleep. He does wake up once to eat in the night still, but other than that he usually sleeps from 7 to 7, but sometimes until 9! If only he could convince his older brother that sleep is awesome. Luke is rolling all over the place and is getting closer to sitting on his own. He is super ticklish and has a cute belly laugh. Luke likes to watch Taft and seems to think he's funny. Taft still loves Lukie to death and is still very sweet with him. We love our boys!!

Mormon Night: Explanation

A couple people asked for clarification on what "Mormon Night" was.  Basically, Mormons (and non-Mormons too) could get discounted tickets for that night's game. Instead of "Take Me Out to the Ball Game" during the 7th inning stretch we sang "Army of Helaman". Just kidding. But really, the San Diego LDS Choir sang the National Anthem and the announcer welcomed all the Mormons. That's it. Oh and everyone got free Padres beach towels.

Mormon Night at the Padres

"According to my calculations the Padres are hitting .333 this season"

My handsome hubby

The Inseparables. 

Petco Park June 2011

Da Boyz

Our second weekend here the Padres had "Mormon Night". We went, being Mormon and all. Taft doesn't have the longest attention span in the world, but he did pretty good and Seth was great at keeping him entertained. Taft also had his "phone" which is actually a calculator. He think he talked to Nana, Gunpa, and Annie that night. We made it until the top of the 8th which I think was pretty good for us. I love baseball games because I feel like it's the All-American sport and I like I'm being patriotic when I go.  Seth has mentioned that he wants to go to as many different MLB games as he can with our boys. So far Seth and Taft have gone to a Dodgers game at Dodger Stadium in L.A., a Mariner's game at Safeco Field in Seattle, and this was Lukie's first game at Petco Park in San Diego.

Pete's Wedding

Pete and Carissa's wedding was absolutely beautiful. The day, the couple, the ceremony, everything. The got married in the Draper Temple and the weather could not have been better. The sealing was really neat and the sealer had some wonderful things to say and some inspired words that I think meant a lot to our family. After pictures and such (by the way...are the pictures not GORGEOUS?!) our families and close friends headed to lunch at Trio. It was a small gathering and it really was lovely.

There was a short program which included the Bluth tradition of a song sung to the bride and groom. Usually it's my dad and uncle, but my uncle wasn't able to make it, so a bunch of us less talented people grouped together so my dad wouldn't have to sing solo. He changed the lyrics from Crosby, Stills, and Nash's song "Our House" to "My Spouse". When Pete was young, maybe around 8-10, we took Christmas gifts to a family at the homeless shelter. The family was made up of a single mom and a few young kids. Afterwards Pete had made a comment to my dad about the family not having a dad. My dad and Pete were driving back home together when Pete thoughtfully said (as a young kid) "It would be delightful to have a spouse." That's where the inspiration for the song came from.

Pete and Carissa each said a few things during the program. Their love for each other was very evident and very endearing. It's clear that they both have an incredible amount of respect for each other, put the other one's happiness before their own, and are truly in love.

Congrats Pete and Carissa!! We are so happy to have Carissa and Jayda a part of our family!


wedding photos by simplicity photography

What we do

Sunday evening walk on the beach

Beach time

Gotta keep this fair skinned baby in the shade, covered in sun screen, and fully covered!

The Zoo. Even though the picture doesn't show it, Taft LOVED the zoo. Every animal he would say "(Whatever animal it was) Yaaaay!!!" 

Taft learned a new trick